Spaghetti Night shouldn't follow a morning bath!

Posted by Joellen Armstrong Saturday, March 28, 2009 6:48 PM 1 comments

Reading a good book (upside down) in the car.

Posted by Joellen Armstrong 12:19 PM 1 comments

Baby Asher

Posted by Joellen Armstrong Tuesday, March 24, 2009 7:52 PM 0 comments
Funny, we are already calling the new baby "baby" so Asher is in need of a new title. Here's a photo from his 2nd day of life outside the womb.


So cute! His face all squished, just sleeping on papa... he looks so serious! Wow, we're going to be seeing that again! Crazy! Asher is growing up so fast. He's learning all kinds of things. He'll pat his tummy when he's hungry, pat his throat when we wants a drink and he even knows where his feet and nose are! Oh, and of course there's always washing... he's great at washing his hair :-) It's just wild to see everything he understands. That's why we've been trying to replace the word "stupid" with ridiculous... at least he'll have a good vocabulary right? Anyway, I just thought I'd post that cute photo and share a tid bit. Have a great night!

Another Great Weekend

Posted by Joellen Armstrong Sunday, March 22, 2009 6:21 PM 1 comments
This weekend was pretty fun. I got to spend time with my parents and 2 of the 4 sisters and Asher was such a great boy the whole time! He really enjoyed getting to know everyone better and I enjoyed showing off all his little tricks :-) We went outside for a bit today (a short trip to the park and then a little time in the front yard) and I took some photos. Here's a cute one of him walking down the sidewalk.


Not much else to say really... it's always fun seeing family and hopefully I'll be able to make a trip down to Coos Bay in the near future. Hope you all had a great weekend and enjoy Spring Break!

Dance Team State Competition

Posted by Joellen Armstrong Friday, March 20, 2009 11:00 AM 0 comments
It was so fun! I got to go see my baby sister compete with their dance team in the state finals last night! She was so amazing... even as a freshman!!!! Their routine was so cute and she did so well!!! I cannot use enough exclamation points for this one! Here's a cute photo...


The other 5 teams they competed against in the finals were super lame I thought :-) All of them were lyrical (slow, ballet type for you non-dancers) and many of the formations were poorly executed much less together. I was really shocked when the Marshfield Upbeats got 4th! Actually, I was pissed!! In a nice way of course. Their routine was very different from the rest and their costumes actually went well with their theme (Nora Jones song about sinking under) and all the girls were pretty together. I am still in shock! I feel bad for Shanny b/c they did so well and there's no way the teams that beat them should have. 

This happens often in competition though. If a judge just doesn't "like" the theme or the moves, the team's score suffers more for every ding against them. I did like the Sherwood routine, although I would have done things a bit different if I were coach, they did a pretty good job... but they still got 3rd! This other team that danced to the song "I want to rock your soul" (country, slower song) got 2nd and I barely remember the team that got 1st! I could go on and on about the technical things that were wrong with these other teams, not only in the overall performance, but in the choices of moves, formations and transitions, but I'll try and stop now :-)

All of it really got me thinking about becoming a dance team coach. I LOVED my years on the dance team. My mom said she thought I'd be a great judge b/c I am really technical, detail oriented and critical (don't worry, it was said in a good way). McMinnville has a dance team but I've heard they aren't very good. So maybe, in a year or 2 I might pursue that again. My senior year as a captain, I pretty much got to run the show with the other captain and I really enjoyed it. As a leader, I had so much influence on the younger girls on the squad and I love the problem solving aspect - how to get someone who's not very good, to be better! Plus, the teen years are tough and dance team was such a support for me... I'd love to be that support for more young girls! We'll see :-) 2 kids will be enough challenge for now, but maybe once this baby is born I'll take a few dance classes and see where that leads. One thing for sure, I miss how nice and limber and lean I was while dancing. Most of my athletic injuries were suffered after not dancing for over  year... it would be nice have my body feel good again!

One more thing. The horse we used to own with my parents died yesterday. Pray for my dad, this is so hard on him. McLaren went into surgery for his front knees (bone spurs) and never woke up. After a while his heart had a couple funny palpitations, then his heart rate was dropping and after trying more oxygen and the "jumper" paddles on him for almost an hour he was gone. Gladly, he didn't seem to suffer and he never woke up thrashing around. The Dr. said she has NEVER seen a horse she's ever helped have this happen. Ususally, they wake up, go crazy and wild, thrash around and hurt themselves so badly they end up needing to be put down b/c of injured legs and stuff. They'll do a necropsy (animal autopsy) and see if they find anything, but they Dr. didn't think they would. Either way, pray that my dad doesn't feel guilty for all the choices he's made... he's been wise and done the right thing so there is absolutely no need for guilt. We have good memories with the horse and hopefully dad will get to have more experiences with horses and our family can look back and see that God had a plan in all this. Thanks so much!

First Haircut... Only a little traumatic :-)

Posted by Mark Armstrong Monday, March 16, 2009 6:33 PM 2 comments

Cutey Patooty

Posted by Joellen Armstrong Saturday, March 14, 2009 4:10 PM 2 comments
Asher is so cute! Not when he's screaming or throwing a fit, but most of the time, he is such a doll! Here's a cute photo from the December snow (not to be confused with the ones in January, Feb or last week). 


To me, it shows his little personality. He's got quite the attitude and he is just so curious! He's been wandering around the house more and more and getting faster and faster! Today we were actually going to take him to get his hair cut but the wait was too long... 50 minutes! Yikes! Asher is really afraid of loud noises... the vacuum, my blowdryer... he even cries when I just pull out the curling iron! It's so sad, it's a really fearful cry, but kind of sweet and cute at the same time. Anyway, just thought I'd add another photo to our collection on here! Hopefully we'll be getting his hair cut soon and we'll be posting some before and after photos too! Enjoy :-)

Drum Time!

Posted by Joellen Armstrong Friday, March 13, 2009 5:15 PM 0 comments

Day in the Life

Posted by Joellen Armstrong Thursday, March 12, 2009 7:52 PM 1 comments
Just another average day. I took a walk, but it ended up a little short... b/c when the sun shines during March in Oregon it doesn't make it warm outside :-) My ears just can't take the cold! We have a great many hills throughout our neighborhood so I got a bit of a workout even though it was barely 20 mins long. We live at one of the highest points in McMinnville right next to the city limits on the West so the wind is strong and when it's a chilled wind, watch out! 

Anyway, I had bible study this morning which was great. I always talk a lot... I don't think I babble really... I just have a lot of thoughts running through my head all the time! And usually people seem to enjoy it, even though I was a cry-baby this morning! Not over anything bad, just anything deep or really meaningful I got totally choked up. We got to talking about God not letting us down but how people will and I told a story from when I was little. I think I was in the 1st grade (maybe 2nd or 3rd now that I think about it) and I was going to be in the talent show but the girl I was going to dance with totally bailed and I had nothing I could do! I was crying in my room when my dad came in and told me that people will let you down but we have to trust in God because He would never fail us. What a great lesson early in life! Although I don't always act like I believe it (stressing and worrying all the time) I'm glad I can look back and remember hearing that as a child. Thanks dad!

Well, Asher doesn't want to sleep so I better go check on him :-) I cannot tell you how pleased I will be when those molars make their appearance! The top two are so close!!! Have a great night everyone!

1 year down, 17+ to go :-)

Posted by Joellen Armstrong Wednesday, March 11, 2009 9:21 PM 0 comments
Yep, that's right... Asher turned 1 year old today! Crazy that he's growing up so fast. The year hasn't flown by like I thought it would, but when I think of how little he used to be I realize maybe it went faster than I think it did :-)

We had a small party, just family and couple friends but it was so much fun! Asher hadn't taken a good nap all day but it worked out well considering he had a bit of a sugar high after the cake for a while. He loved his gifts (and the boxes of course) and I'm really excited to see what this next year brings for him and us. Even though he has bad and difficult days, he's learning so much and making lots of progress to becoming a good man! 

He has several "tricks" he likes to display... the cutest and newest of the bunch is when we say "Are you gonna wash?" he puts his hands up and rubs his head! So adorable! He also claps and drums on cue, throws a ball and hands stuff over to mama and papa... what else... oh yeah, when he's holding something like a towel, shirt or anything like that and you say "where's the baby?" he'll put it up over his face (even if it only covers his eyes) and then pull it down. Then we say "there he is!" and he laughs and smiles like crazy. Plus, he wanders around the downstairs pretty freely and is starting to bend over and pick up toys without falling over :-) Maybe soon he'll be able to get to standing without a table, basket or my leg!

Well, I hope you enjoy these birthday photos... hopefully I'll have more cute photos to post soon!




I think he likes spaghetti...

Posted by Mark Armstrong Monday, March 9, 2009 7:26 PM 2 comments

Interesting Days

Posted by Joellen Armstrong Wednesday, March 4, 2009 8:24 PM 2 comments
I've gotten to reading a bit more lately. It really has helped me having a nice bible that I can treasure and tote along with me. I've also been reading our book for bible study (just a few minutes each day) and a book I bought a week ago called "Parenting isn't for Cowards" by Dr James Dobson. I just love his stuff! It is a combination of what he says and how he says it that really gets me. He tells great stories, gives practical advice with real-life situations and is so optimistic about what prayer does in life. 

Anyway, I've finished the Dobson book in under a week, which is quite impressive b/c I haven't even finished one book in who knows how long! It's been a while... I think some other parenting books when Asher was only a few months old... crazy. Well, I'm trying to discern Asher and his intentions (which is HARD) and I'm finding that he's maybe just a bit strong-willed, not a ton, but enough to see it daily in certain things. But mainly, he's an energetic boy who loves company. And not just company, but constant entertainment and physical contact! Multiple times today I seriously had to sit with him and entertain him every 5 minutes for about an hour! Yeah, after eating breakfast, after lunch and after snack. So there's no way he's lacking that mother-son companionship thing! I didn't realize until today how much time I actually spend playing with him and trying to keep him either happy or out of drawers... no wonder I don't have personal time!

It's fun most of the time, but around 3:30 (after 2nd nap) the crankiness increases and the attention span decreases and my energy level is almost zero! I'm so grateful for our playroom. It's COMPLETELY kid-safe and he can get into ANYTHING in there... so I can sit and knit while being close to him and but I don't often have to get up and re-direct all that energy. Don't misunderstand me - I chat with him and will throw a ball, read a book with him and just be there watching him, but it's less involved than the rest of the day and he gets less cranky with me thus creating a more pleasant atmosphere for everyone in the family! I'm almost shocked when I hear of other parents who don't have to follow their kid around as much as Asher... his whimpering is being dealt with daily but at a certain point I've learned that I need to avoid situations that cause the whimpering and save the training for parts of the day where everyone is happier and more open to learning :-)

Today was a tough day but it ended on a good note so I'm still feeling pretty good. In a few weeks I'll probably start to feel the new baby kicking around in there... I'll be a little nervous if it feels the same as Asher... knowing that I'll have 2 children with ridiculous amounts on energy :-) Still, I'm once again thinking that this milestone will help this feel more real... I keep looking at the ultrasound photo thinking "Yep, there's a baby growing" and feeling glad that I'm not just getting fat b/c of my sugar addiction! Hope you all have a great week!

Asher closes himself in my office

Posted by Mark Armstrong Monday, March 2, 2009 5:23 PM 0 comments